11 gist_corner • Posted by u/lukiss 24 days ago Marriage In South Sudan MARRIAGE IN SOUTH SUDAN: After the wedding, Even though the groom’s family pays a dowry, sometimes 100 to 500 cows, the new wife is treated with huge respect. For example, When a man marries, his wife does NOT cook or clean for 4 whole years. This time is called "Anyuuc" (Generous Welcome). The new bride simply rests, relaxes, & learns about her new family’s way of life. During these 4 years, the husband’s sister does all the hard work. She cooks, washes dishes, gets water, collects wood, & all other chores until the time is up. If she doesn't have a sister, he just employ someone to do it or he himself does the work, while the wife relaxes.. After 4 years, the husband throws a huge party called "Thaat" (Cooking Festival). They kill 3 cows & 5 goats! This party is the official start of the wife cooking for her family. This custom has a very important rule: If the husband treats his wife badly during the 4 years, she can simply decide to leave the marriage. She does not have to pay back the cows (dowry) or any other thing that was gifted to her during that period..